Dying for a divorce
the neighbors kept her secret and she ended up dead--why do we feel we have to protect the assholes who treat us so badly????
Why are we so afraid to say, "You can not treat any owman this way and if you do i will report you to the authorities--police, social welfare, the minister or rabbi!"
Read about this woman who did not et our support.
Why are we so afraid to say, "You can not treat any owman this way and if you do i will report you to the authorities--police, social welfare, the minister or rabbi!"
Read about this woman who did not et our support.
M. had initially requested a divorce six years ago. She had had enough of the violence and the humiliation, but her husband refused to provide a get (religious divorce papers). During six years of proceedings at the rabbinical court, the judges declined to force the recalcitrant husband to divorce his suffering wife.
Meanwhile, M.’s husband continued to physically and verbally abuse her. Although the neighbors were aware of what went on in the couple’s home, no one dared to interfere. In the haredi neighborhood where the couple lived with their four children, the unspoken rules were sacred: Don’t involve the police, and don’t air your dirty laundry in public.

1 Comments:
What a sad story! I, too, was keeping the secret. when time came for me to move out - I contacted the police to see how to protect myself. Their advice was to inform all the neighbours that I was moving out - in case I needed a safety haven to run to. I did that, went to each neighbour I knew (almost all) and told them I was moving and was scared of the consequences during the time between then and the actual move.
In return of course, one of the neighbours decided to tell my partner - all hell broke loose, but I had every other neighbour knowing fully what was going on. I was offered beds for myself and my children, and endless support.
My ex still lives in that house - I have moved on, but I'm the one with friends in his neighbourhood, not him. He is very quiet now and sticks to himself.
Had I gone to them earlier, I would have known then, that his last wife left him because of violence in the home (among other things)...
Don't delay - tell people, it eases the behaviour - if people know their secret, they HAVE to behave.
Take control of what is going on in your life - its never too late - tell someone TODAY :)
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